Pre-Date
Do some research. Try to find out about your date’s lifestyle, hobbies, job and passions.
Scope out the meeting place. A first impression is significant, so never over/under-dress for the setting. And never, ever be late. Make sure your know how to get there and try to be 10-15 minutes early.
Build confidence by dressing in your all-time favorite outfit. There’s no need to buy a new one. Try too hard and your date will notice.
Make sure you feel fresh and have a clear mind on the day of the date. Trying to have a romantic dinner after a tough day at work isn’t smart.
Girls, don’t overdo the accessories and men, stick to a watch, anything else is just distracting.
During the Date
Don’t get drunk. Just drink enough so that you feel relaxed.
Order safely. Avoid seafood that’s hard to eat, spaghetti or anything with onion or garlic that can give you bad breath.
Ladies, don’t just smell the dish, eat it! Guys don’t appreciate your efforts at dieting; they want to see you enjoy the meal.
Keep topics nice and general. No politics, religion or marriage talk.
Let your date get chatting and DO listen to the answer. Never pretend; you’ll get caught out.
Don’t give aggressive comments on issues. Not on the first date.
Share the bill. But, if the guy really wants to pay, don’t forget to say, “Thank you. Next time, let it be my treat.” Then he’ll see that you’re polite and you’re also up for a second date!
No getting home late on the first date. Try and end it before midnight.
Post-Date
Don’t take it too seriously. You’re just at the first stage. Open the door for whoever will come. You can always date others and make the best pick from the choices available.
Ladies, don’t call the guy first. This is an old school point of view, but trust me. Text or email is much better.
