Dear Mr. KIA: After five years away, my sister finally returned home and made a huge announcement during a welcome party: She and her (lucky) farang fiancé are planning to get married next month! As jealous as I am of both of them, I have tried hard to be nice and even offered to help out. The next thing I knew, I was saddled with a to-do list that is taller than I am! Meanwhile, she’s spending her days shopping and showing off her hubby-to-be. Not exactly fair, is it? As I can’t take back my words, can you help me find a decent wedding planner at a reasonable price? Appreciate your help in advance.—You Couldn’t Be So Cruel

Dear YCBSC: Ah, weddings. They bring out the best—and worst—in people. On one hand, your envy might suggest that your sister is prettier, nicer, smarter and an all-around better catch than you are; on the other hand, the fact that you aren’t abandoning your sister in her time of need says that maybe it’s you who deserves the guy. But then who ever said that life was fair?

There are plenty of good wedding planning services around town that will hopefully make your sister’s special day one she’ll never forget even if you would like to.

Wedding Mind For all your sister’s wedding needs, whether it is invitations, ultimate audio/video lovey dovey presentations, full service makeup artist or even bridal dresses, Wedding Mind has it all.

As Your Mind This wedding design company can make it happen for you, from gifts to cards to a full-blown party.

Wedding Story With their extensive collection of wedding memorabilia, your sister can choose how she wants to remember and be remembered.